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If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be.

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there are some things that will never change

i recently watched the tyra banks show and they did a social experiment on high popularity. Like how far and how drastic it is. they interviewed the popular and unpopular students at a high school in new york city. and i guess this issue about the popular kids usually bringing down the unpopular ones is imminent and inevitable. to be honest, there are the popular and unpopular kids in my school but the line btwn the pop. kids and the unpop. kids are blurred. what i mean is that, the segregation isnt that clear cut like those in america or maybe other schools in singapore, or in other countries.

i think to myself, what does it mean to become popular, what do you get out of it? ok maybe the obvious one is fame, that many people know you, you have a huge social circle. many people know you. is that all that matters?? and what do have to do to become popular? do you have to look good? wear good clothes, know how to present yourself, wear make up and all that? i dont know. because i feel that some people are nice but they aren't popular, some people do wear nice clothes, i mean presentable ones but they're not popular.

so what does it takes to become a popular person? and why when you become popular, they say you bring down others, especially those who aren't on the same level as you? like tyra said, when you're popular, you have the power do something, and i agree. because pp know you, they would want to hear what u have to say, or they will do wht u want them to do or you can do whatever you can cos you have the power, and you set out to do something good, chances are you can do it smoothly, no worries there. i just dont get it why the popular school kids are abusing this power. why they use this power to bring people down when they lift their spirits up?

just because a girl has a bad achne problem or is seriously over weight, means she has to be disgusting? maybe she's the cleanest person in the world or the most nicest person in the world but you just have to tear down her self esteem just cos of her appearance. and i salute to this girl called candice who stood up in the show speaking out about the popular girls being mean.

all in all, i dont think this issue is going to end, it will always continue. i think we should just be who we are, be ourselves, i mean honestly, i would like to be popular but not in a way that i bring down people's confidence, ths also showing tht u dont love yourself and u're not confident. it's true. i wanna be popular among all the cliques, like be nice, even to those unpopular kids, i wanna be friends with them cause i know they are more worthwhile than the popular ones

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i never fail to disappoint or to upset people around me

What are your believes?

As a person, we have own believes right? Our own principles too due to the way we were brought up or what we are taught.

So for me, I believe integrity is the very important because if you have integrity is that you want to treat others as you want to be treated. Giving a simple example, you slap some one, of course the other person will either slap you back, punch you in the face or do something worse. If you do a good deed, you'll get the reward you deserve, right? Kinda relates to karma as well. And yea I believe in karma too(: What goes around, comes around.

So next would be karma, what goes around comes around. people say i'm too nice, i agree. sometimes i feel being taken advantage of but in the of everything, i know something great, awesome and spectacular will come out of this. evrybody get what they deserve and that will always be true. we may not see the karma or whatever thts going on but subconciously, it will dawn to us. i can't assure you but i know that i would feel really good about myself.

I also believe beauty is skin deep. And just the word beauty is subjective. You can say Paris Hilton is hot but she ain't close to being beautiful. Or even Angelina Jolie, I get bored of her face, seriously. I just find her stunning because for her flawless features and her good heart but she ain't beautiful. Every women is beautiful. Beautiful not just about looks but about character and personality. your character and personality can be beautiful if you let it do good things.

though i can't follow this but i think that we should surround ourselve with positive energy like surround yourself with things that gives you something positive. like hanging out with people/ friends that always motivates you, hear you out and always gives you the brighter side of life. however, sometimes you are surrounded by these good things but somehow, you're still a pessimistic. i know why, it's because you yourself haven't change. the things/ people around you can only do so much to wrap you with postive, optimistic things but it is you. whether you want to accept it or not, it's totally up to you. being optimistic and patient i truly think will take you far.

learning point

i realize, i believe it's a duh and it is the correct thing that i should let go off cristian, for good. like really really. i will save myself from tired nights of hot stinging tears and also from hurting scott. it is evil, cruel of me that i want cristian back when i'm actually with scott. it is so wrong but all i want is to tell him how i feel, how sorry i am and to show him that the best thing right now is for us to be far apart as possible cause it will only hurt us more. it pains me to even think of that but i keep telling myself its for the best. though i may not agree with it now but i believe once i tell cristian this, it will all be alright? i hope so. i just dont want to regret making that decision cause i know once i've decided there's no changing of my mind or his mind for that matter. thats the hardest part :(

and i think one of the days, me and scott will break up but if we want to be together forever, i think we will patch things up and have a better relationship. i wont be surprise as a matter a factly.